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Post by TequilaDo on Mar 29, 2006 21:01:01 GMT -8
Ok let me give you the background info. Me = Doug Matt = my best friend (valermos) Nicole = Matt's GF Terra = my gf. ok recently terra and nicole became best friends ( REALLY BAD IDEA DONT DO IT!) anyways they are best friends now so they talk about everything and shiz like that, it seems like that they always talk about what is wrong with us (me and matt) and how we're always "fucking up" (according to them) anyways we are planning to go to MLG Dallas and New York and instead of being supportive like gf's should be they have to find a negative side to it. they think taht we are gonna invite a bunch if girls up to our hotels and shiz like that. OK who the hell would want to go to our hotel? "you game??? OMG i thnk that is soo hott!" yea not gonna happen. do you guys think that matt and i are in the right to be mad or do they have a valid reason?
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Post by speed on Mar 29, 2006 21:08:26 GMT -8
Wait, didnt you find a negative side to one of my posts? Haha just kidding dude, ill drop it.
Anyways.. I see it as you have a right to be a little angry but i wouldnt advise you give them any hints about your feelings, it seems like their suspicious enough as it is. Maybe get them some roses and ensure them that you'd never do a thing like that? I dunno.. *yells to rick* ATTENTION RICCCKKK!..
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Post by LuiGiPwns™ on Mar 29, 2006 21:13:51 GMT -8
I don't really get it but i think like 3 or 4 girls want to come with you guys to MLG? I don't see the problem really, if they become troublesome you can have them make you sandwiches and such. I mean sounds cool to me. Wait lol, i just reread what you wrote and i get it now. I think they should put a little more trust in you their BF's. Unless of course they have past reasons to not trust you, I don't know about your past so.. I think you guys should still get some strippers or something, I mean whats a party without naked chicks, eh rorgy  |
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Post by speed on Mar 29, 2006 21:15:08 GMT -8
wait your asking rorgy? he only knows about naked jesse.
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Post by FrkUout on Mar 29, 2006 21:28:34 GMT -8
You're on the right track Tyler. what you need to realize is that the girls are already insecure about your relationships, regardless if they were friends or not. Them becoming friends has probably strengthened their worries because they can converse about the two of you and what you guys are doing to piss them off. Most likely it's not spending enough time with them. They see this trip as a way for you to get away from them. Did you think about inviting them along? Probably not. Why would you wnat to drag your girlfriends to places where other guys may hit on them or have them be bored watching you play. the point is that you didn't give them the chance to say, "No, I'm not into that kida stuff but you go ahead without me." In their mind this gives you permission to go and they'll feel better about it because you THOUGHT OF THEIR FEELINGS FIRST.(not yelling...used caps for emphasis)
Right now your girls...the ones your having sex with or trying to have sex with are really questioning your real intentions for going to these events. I'm sure there'll be hot chick there and without a woman strapped to your side you may be tempted to stay. This is their concern.
Something you probably don't realize is the them become friends has most likely allowed you extra time to do the thing you want. They can plan a girls day and you and your buddy can play halo till your thumbs fall off. In all actuality, this situation is probably a winner for you guys.
Now, other than asking them if they wanted to go too(which is probably too late because the damage is done since you didn't consider asking in the first place) you should do a Tyler says and buy somehting nice for the ladies. Then apologize for not considering how they would feel about you going away. If you want to have a serious relationship you have to ALWAYS consider how the other person is going to feel or react to a given situation. I get in trouble all the time and I've been married for 9 years. You cannot plan for every situation but you sure can try.
AS far as you guys being upset over their reactions. It's a typical reaction. They're mad at you for wanting to do something you enjoy and not including them in on it and your upset with them becasue they are mad and don't understand that nothing would happen to jepordize the relationship. In this case I'd have to say if you didn't consider them when making this decision then you are in the wrong and have very little right to be angry. However, if you did and you assured them that if they decided to not go nothing would happen and they still blew a lid, then you should be a little angry.
Like I said before though, with the girls talking and sharing all the things you and you buddy do the pisses them off, this is only adding fuel to the fire and causing them to wonder if they really wnat to be in that sort of relationship. If you want to keep them follow the advice and get something nice very quickly. (flowers, candy, a small gift, basically something the show you care about her and her feelings)
Hope this helps.
Dr old man out....
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Post by LuiGiPwns™ on Mar 29, 2006 21:39:23 GMT -8
^wow^
Rick is teh rape
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Post by lx Spooner xl on Mar 30, 2006 5:20:10 GMT -8
first ...wow rick... wow wait your asking rorgy? he only knows about naked jesse. second did he say anything about me...no! so shut it! |
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Post by Roggie on Mar 30, 2006 9:11:30 GMT -8
Luigi did. Not Tequila.
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Post by TequilaDo on Mar 30, 2006 13:38:36 GMT -8
wow thanks rick you da man ;D
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Post by TequilaDo on Mar 30, 2006 14:12:45 GMT -8
*problem solved* i convinced my father to go with us so girls dont have to worry bout us cheating and 'rents dont have to worry bout rape,kidnap,sex,drugs,alcohol,and uh......death?
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Post by Chief (n7x Dominance) on Mar 30, 2006 15:16:54 GMT -8
i like death.. tis gooood.. lol
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Post by FrkUout on Mar 30, 2006 15:31:28 GMT -8
Glad I could help...good thing this is ajunkyard post or you would have gotten some warning points
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Post by TequilaDo on Mar 30, 2006 16:04:36 GMT -8
for why? ;D
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Post by Roggie on Mar 30, 2006 16:23:42 GMT -8
a completely off topic post of pure randomness.
I like cleaning stuff with rubbing alcohol, meaning I rubbing alcoholize it! (Hey, it's how I fixed my 360 when the hard drive fucked up)
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Post by TequilaDo on Mar 30, 2006 16:33:06 GMT -8
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